Since the decision, there have been many people from both sides that have come out and said some very hurtful things. Sometimes our passion takes us beyond our reality. We have Christians coming out and talking about hell, fire, and brimstone. While on the other side, the gay community is talking about how Christians are judging them and referring to how Christians are hypocrites.
In reality, we live in a world where God has given us free will. As Christians and followers of Jesus Christ, we have no right to point fingers. We are all sinners and as Jesus told the Pharisees, the first one not to have sinned should be the first to cast the first stone.
As a believer in Christ, I don't agree with homosexuality but it isn't my place to judge them. It is however, my place to love them and show them the love of God. It is okay not to agree with a persons decisions, but by no means should we judge and show hatred towards people.
There is another side of the coin. The ones who are in the gay community and those who support the ruling regarding DOMA have no right to judge the Christian community. As much as your beliefs have been attacked, especially within the last decade, ours too have been attacked for centuries. We have suffered in the same ways as you are now and Christians and their beliefs have no right to be judged either.
Those who judge our beliefs must first truly know what our beliefs are and why we belief them. Our hope is in Jesus and His resurrection. Our beliefs come from the bible, the Word of God, and that what it says is true. To criticize us means you first have to read what and why we believe those things.
The two words the have continued to come up through all of this is "belief" and "community". It is my "belief" that we all can live together in the "community". Do we have different beliefs? Yes, we do but it isn't our place to judge each other when in reality we haven't walked in each others foot steps.
My prayer is that God will shine His light through the Christian community, despite some of the few bad apples that have brought a negative view to it. Let's be men and women who are willing to love and not judge!
1 Peter 2:9
But you are not like that, for you are a chosen people. You are royal priests, a holy nation, God’s very own possession. As a result, you can show others the d goodness of God, for he called you out of the darkness into his wonderful light.